What to do instead: If your date asks if he can see you again, try saying this: “You are so sweet and thank you, but can I think about it?” If you know you’re never going to want to see him again, try being brave and honest: “I’m not sure if we’re a good fit, but I did enjoy meeting you tonight.” 2.But if you’re more of an organized planner who likes to have dates set in advance, tell your date the truth outright – and don’t apologize for who you are!Say, “I’m a planner, so I like to have things set in my calendar for the week ahead.
Will you hang out a few more times until one of you cools off and ends it?
Even though you may believe that you’re being nicer to lie, you’re actually making things worse by keeping hope alive.
Keep in mind that someone leaving a date may go home, tell his friends about you, and look forward each day to the next time he gets to see you.
Some of the lies are little white lies (“I love exercising”) while others are serious lies that no one should ever be repeating (“I’m single,” when you’re really not).
In this article, I’m focusing on the way men and women lie to their dates and end up leading them on when they’re not actually interested.