I was shocked and concerned that the whole neighborhood would find out.
After I got over the initial shock, I realized that my neighbor was thinking the same thing.
Many swingers, especially females, are active in the Life Style due to bisexual curiosity.
For that reason, you can feel pretty secure that you won't be ratted out; we're all in the Life Style together.
I've personally run into swingers at work, at dinner, at a strip club, at a non-swinger party, at nude beaches and in many other places.
If you lucked out and happened to live near a swingers club, it probably wasn't a very attractive or "upscale" place.
Today, the Life Style is evolving and becoming more mainstream.